Learning is about listening and watching from the things around us.
If we learn of calm, peace, love, and understanding; then we become just that.
If you learn from worry, turmoil, aggravation, and fear, then your life will be filled with despair.
We should balance out our learning. Learn from the negative influences, and leave that behind us; learn from the positive things around us. Water it and watch it grow into something quite beautiful inside.